
Summer under the skin, by Marie-Stéphanie Servos
Or how centuries of art history have shaped the way women see themselves in the mirror.

L'été dans la peau
Ysé’s annual event, Summer under the skin, is back: a highlight of the year, where we give a platform to inspiring women to share sincere and thought-provoking stories about our relationship with our bodies.
As we begin to bare more skin, we believe it’s essential to examine our relationship with our most intimate selves and to foster more accurate, gentler images of how we view ourselves.
We continue to explore the female gaze and the strength we can draw from it. Because we believe that it’s by coming together that we’ll learn to look at ourselves with greater tenderness.
Today, we’re sharing the stories of five of you: five women, five different journeys, but always the same desire to learn to love ourselves.
Annabelle
Today, I’d say I try to focus more on all the positive things my body brings me rather than on my insecurities. As a teenager, I was very self-conscious, but over the years, I’ve learned to love every part of my body.
What really helped me was learning how to highlight and flatter my body type. Wearing pieces that reflect my personality was a key step in this journey, starting with underwear, and then, little by little, I learned to stop worrying about what others think and to fully embrace myself.
This summer, I’m pregnant and I’m seeing my body change, which is unsettling. But I think that throughout life, our bodies are constantly evolving: it’s important to learn to love them, no matter what they look like.
If I could talk to the young girl I once was, I’d tell her not to compare herself to others. Her differences aren’t flaws, they’re part of what makes her unique. And above all, I’d remind her that what we see on our screens doesn’t always reflect reality.

Claire
Our relationship with our bodies, especially as women, is like a long journey. It’s often a long road, fraught with obstacles.
Thanks to several years of work, I’m proud to say that I’ve now learned to love my body. It allows me to love, to travel, and to play sports. Thanks to it, I have incredible experiences and create unforgettable memories. So yes, I’ve stopped judging it and speaking harshly to it. Being kind to your body goes a long way on the path to acceptance. Realizing what it gives us and what it allows us to experience is the key to loving it.
I got sick about ten years ago. Everything is fine now, but my body changed a lot during that time, and my relationship with it has evolved significantly since then. Instead of supporting it through that ordeal, I was very critical of it at first.
It took a few years, a few trips, and a lot of self-reflection to learn to trust it. Since then, I’ve learned to listen to my body and take care of it. And it rewards me so well in return.
I feel particularly confident in my body when I exercise: that’s when I feel most alive. And when it comes to feeling beautiful and feminine, wearing pretty lingerie and feminine, colorful clothes helps too. With Ysé bodysuits, for example, I immediately feel more confident, more feminine, and more elegant.
To the young girl I once was, I’d like to say: live life to the fullest, trust yourself, and trust in fate. It has plenty of wonderful surprises in store for you.



Charlotte
For a long time, I looked at my body in the mirror, hoping it would reflect an image I could recognize as my own, and one that others would find pretty. My focus was on my appearance.
Then motherhood arrived, turning that perspective upside down. I finally understand that my body wasn’t just a figure. It has a much more precious story. My first pregnancy, which led to the birth of my daughter in May, transformed my relationship with my body, leaving a new imprint.
It’s during these summer evenings that I’m gradually regaining my self-confidence. I’m pulling out the few pieces I’d left in the closet last summer and rediscovering the joy of getting dressed, of feeling desirable.
I think I’m more at ease at night, as if it leaves a little more room for what we feel than for what we show during the day. To look at myself with more tenderness, I cling to my story. I try to compare myself less to others, to look at my own scars with kindness, and to move forward at my own pace.
To the young girl I once was, I’d like to say: your body will become your best friend, because it will carry your story, your joys, your struggles, and your transformations. There’s nothing to hide in a body that tells the story of your life, on the contrary, there are so many reasons to be proud of it.
Rym
I love my body. Not because it’s perfect, far from it, but because I know what we’re capable of doing together. I respect it by leading a healthy lifestyle and always staying active. In middle school, I was the one picked last in gym class; I didn’t necessarily have confidence in my body. Since then, I’m still just as clumsy, but I love sports and I know what I’m capable of. In the meantime, I’ve had two pregnancies, gaining 20 kg each time, but my body bounces back at its own pace and without any pressure. For me, the body is like life: it goes through different seasons. Right now, my body isn’t the best version of itself, but I feel good in it.
When I got serious about working out, I came to love my body even more, not because it was more beautiful, but because it was stronger. After two births in two and a half years, I can’t wait to get back to it. I love it even more for what it has accomplished and for the marks of life it bears, marks that I embrace and cherish.
I feel more confident when I’m comfortable and look my best in what I’m wearing: in fact, it was at Ysé that I put together the wardrobe I’m wearing this summer, from swimsuits to little tops to my bag.
To the young girl I once was, I’d like to say: hold on to your dreams and pursue them.

Ingrid
I have very much fallen out of love with my body... I don't think I ever thought that my figure was good enough. Growing up in the 80s/90s our criteria when I was a teenager were models such as Claudia Shieffer and Kate Moss and even being a size 36/38 French was not matching the criteria we wanted to meet... the jeans were incredibly tight, with low waist and no stretch or straight shapes designed for men with no hips. The years passed and between work, a household to juggle and feeding growing teen boys who desperately try to become bigger to meet their generation targets and be the strongest on the building pitch, I have lost my silhouette completely. The pre-menopause and hormones shift has not helped and my tummy which used to always be flat is no more, my waist is not as marked as it used to be and although I am trying be kind to myself, I struggle to let go of my silhouette and accept the evidence that I am aging and it is part and parcels of being on the edge of half a century.
Sometimes, my body also send me back to these failed pregnancies that seem to have marked my body as much as my soul. I do think that the repeated loss of pregnancies happened on the eve of my peri menopause when everything becomes chaotic, your brain, your anxiety and your body. I felt I woke up one day to a body that was not mine anymore, a little bit like a stranger.
I feel more confident in my body when what I wear is flattering and that I know it only shows my body with its best attributes... a long dress adjusted at the top and loosen under my breast, a highleg cut swimsuit, a nice pattern. I have just purchased the swimsuit entre ciel et mer in the pattern caroline and I really love it. This winter I fell in love with the caraco parfum evanoui, the bustier coeur contre coeur in pensée print, but what I worn on a weekly basis are the top la veillée and les joyeux bavardages in augusta. I know that when I were these tops I am confident and feel elegant
I would like to say my younger self to be kind and gentle, to enjoy the time that moves and stop chasing the impossible body. To live every moment and savour the accomplishment as they come; being a mother and therefore having a different body is normal, aging is fine and ineluctable. Be gentle and live for yourself and others.
